Thursday, July 11, 2013

#14 Trip Reflections (part 1)

I arrived back from Ethiopia slightly over a week ago.  I am still trying to process my time there.  In some ways it was amazing and in other ways it was incredibly difficult.  So, I will start at the beginning… which is really the Monday I left and all the details surrounding our paperwork that I was trying to mail off before I left the country.

So, my flight out of Oklahoma City was scheduled to leave at 4:40, meaning that my kids and were running last minute errands throughout the metro area.  At 10:30 I called the homestudy agency to see if the homestudy would or would not be ready by noon.  If it was ready by noon, I would have time to pick it up and still get my kids to my friend Trisha’s house and arrive at my home by 2:00 for my husband to pick me up.  However, if it was after noon I would have to let Jeff get it later.  The agency told me it would be ready by noon, so I started to make my way to their area of the city.  At 11:45 they called and said it was going to be a little after noon.  So, the kids and I stopped for lunch.  At 12:15 we were just around the corner from the agency when they called again to tell me (you guessed it right?) it was still NOT DONE!  I was pretty frustrated because I had driven all the way over to their place, which was a good 45 minutes out of my way (making for 1.5 hours of unnecessary driving).  However, to their credit, they offered to meet me at a location on the way from my home to the airport at 2:15.  I wasn’t holding my breath, but I agreed. 
Okay, now fast-forward, kids are at Trisha’s and Jeff’s picked me and my luggage up from our house.  We were running late to arrive at the location, but true to her word, there was our case worker, with the homestudy (and the extra copies I requested) in hand!  I was so thankful!  We went immediately to the nearest post office to send the dossier (minues the I71H – immigration approval) to our Agency and a copy of the homestudy to USCIS (requesting the immigration approval still missing from the dossier).  Then on the way to the airport I began to read the homestudy.  Oh.  My.  Word.  There were errors glaring at me.  Some were typos others were bigger errors.  There was one point where my parents were introduced as Doug and Nancy (correct) then in the sentence afterward referred to as Paul and Linda.  I was mortified.  Once I got to the airport and checked through security I called our Agency to let them know what I had seen.  They told me that Ethiopia won’t care, but USCIS (the one we need that missing piece of paperwork from) might.  If they did, then the errors would have to be fixed and resubmitted.  So, right now we are praying they overlook the unsightly blemishes I saw.  I must admit too that I stopped reading after the error mentioned above, I was so discouraged.  So, who knows what other errors may exist!  At this point I don’t even want to know.
So, in spite of all my running around, I did arrive in plenty of time for my flight.  However, the flight was delayed.  We had a 3 hour layover in Chicago, which should have been just fine.  But… um… yea, no.  Once we did leave, we arrived in Chicago with 45 minutes to get to our next gate, which I knew was never going to happen even as we tried to do it anyway.  I knew we would have to recheck-in through security because we were transferring to the international terminal.  When we arrived at the security check point we had 10 minutes before the flight took off but they would not allow us into the terminal because the doors close 30 minutes before the flight is scheduled to leave.  We were deflated.  Even worse, only four of our team were stuck.  The other two had flown out of Dallas and had not been delayed.  They were on the flight without us.  And one of them was in a near state of panic because of it.
So, we were sent back to the American flight desk to try to rebook another flight.  The simple thing would have been the same flight 1 day later through the same airline, Turkish Air.  However, that flight was full.  So, the dear lady, Joann, at American tried other options.  She found us something but then came the problem.  You see when we were checked into the flight in Oklahoma City, not only were we checked into the flight from OKC to Chicago, we were also checked into the flight from Istanbul to Ethiopia.  So, Joann needed someone at Turkish air to release us from that flight.  Problem?  They had all gone home.  She tried, bless her heart, to call everyone and anyone to get the error fixed, but to no avail.  So, we were stuck in Chicago with no ability to rebook our flight until the next day when the Turkish airline attendants returned. 
The four of us who were stuck were actually in good spirits about the whole thing.  Or at least we were all really good at putting on a front.  I know I was feeling anxious.  But I quelled my inner-child who wanted to screen “It’s not fair!” and made light of the situation, if only for the sake of the other four.  So, from outward appearances, anyway, we were pretty upbeat and hopeful that all things would work out the next day.  We found a hotel for the night and headed that way.  The traffic was horrendous that evening, though, and it took a LONG time before we were at the hotel.  We also did not have our checked luggage, so we were living out of whatever we had the sense to pack in our carry-on luggage.  I was actually pleasantly surprised at what I found in mine.  Note: this was because my checked luggage was too heavy and I pulled stuff out of it at the last minute to put in my carry-on, not because I actually planned well J. 
The next day we ate breakfast at the hotel and decided to explore Chicago some, since we had the day to kill.  We took the CTA (subway) downtown.  That was an adventure!  I have never taken a subway in the US before.  I’ve taken one once with my aunt on an overseas trip ages ago, but it was only to say we had done so, not to actually go somewhere.  We ended up walking around the city and even saw a movie before we headed back to the hotel to collect our luggage and return to the airport to rebook our flights.  It was a pleasant day, even if we were all anxious to move along.
When we finally got about the business of rebooking our flight we found while we were unbooked from Turkish air for the flight causing problems the day before, we now had bigger problems.  All the flight options that were present the night before, were now filled.  The soonest we could get a flight to actually get us to Ethiopia was Friday morning at 8:30 AM (note: our original itinerary had us there Wednesday morning at 12:30 AM).  We were crushed!  We had plans to work at the orphanage Thursday and Friday.  This new flight ruled out Thursday completely and would leave us exhausted as we arrived to start working immediately on Friday morning.  As a last ditch effort, we asked if there was a way to attempt to fly standby on the full Turkish air flight that night without losing our confirmed ability to fly with the other itinerary.  They agreed to let us try.  However, we soon realized we had no ability to eat inside the airport since we didn’t have boarding passes.  Again, Joann came through!  She got us gate passes that allowed us back into the domestic terminal to eat dinner before we headed to the international terminal to try to get on that evening’s flight.  We had dinner at Chili’s, relaxing and praying to be able to leave Chicago that night.
The flight out was at 10:15 and we were instructed to come to the ticket counter at 9:00 to try to get tickets.  But we were anxious and headed on over around 8:00 to see what could be done.  Wonder of wonders, we actually GOT TICKETS!  We were ecstatic!  And so VERY THANKFUL!  Turkish airlines also assured us that our luggage was on the flight.  We went through security, and I even had time to facetime (very quickly) with my husband and kids before the flight took off. 
We would connect in Istanbul to our final flight to Ethiopia the next day.  The flight to Istanbul would be 11 hours, then the final flight another 5.  We also had a comfortable layover in Istanbul.  We were on our way.  And all I could do was think… I’m nearly there. 

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